Only 364 More Shopping Days...

Start now, get a jump on things. Don't ask for tinsle the day before festive occasions, or actually expect it to be available. Ah well. It's over. Now starts the season of returning all the unwanted merchandise that people spent too much on anyway. Went home, read their bank statements, winced painfully, and brought it all back. Rent a gift...someone should just start a renting center for all your gifting needs. Wasn't so bad this year at the end, people regained some civility and rationality, if only for three days. The new year looms darkly on the horizon. What awaits us in retail then! *GASP* The horror, the horror. So, hollow people, you did not succeed in bringing me down into your gutural level of insanity and rudeness this season. Try again next year if you're up for the challenge.

A Further Descent into Madness

Well, well, with the holiday season upon us, one can only expect the best and horrid worst of people. Some are delighted to simply have a home, job, and food on a regular basis. They are going through life trying to not make it any harder for others. Thank you, all of you, you are the majority. Then there are the rest of you greedy little buggers...rude, selfish, and inexcusable. Please do not push rudely in front of people of any age who were waiting patiently before you. Please do not be greedy...everything at this time of year is not FREE at the retail stores. Besides do you really need an electric shaving cream warmer or some gadget that "salon" dries your nail polish instantly? Work with me here. Is it worth arguing over? When stores are out of seasonal merchandise, they are out of seasonal merchandise...there are no more shipments of holiday junk during the holiday season! It all came in during June and July when you were buying the stuff that came in during January. Do we see a pattern here? There are no magical little elves in the warehouses sending sleighs of tinsel and ribbon nightly to your local retailer. Give it a rest. Shopkeepers are there to assist you, not be your personal shopper. We don't care what you're buying for some cousin you only see once a year. Don't expect lots of personalized service at the busiest time of year...you should have started in August if that's what you need. Just wait, take it easy, it will all come out alright. Please remember that there are several hundred other people who also did not have the foresight to make holiday photo greeting cards in advance also needing to use the self-help photo machine, who also must wait in line, and can not use a simple touch screen by themselves either. Best of the season and all that rot, and enjoy the approxamately two months of madness.

Adieu 20's

This is the last day of my 20 something decade of life. Tomorrow is my 30th birthday, another year of my life gone. Sounds sort of grim doesn't it? Sometimes another 50 or 60 years just doesn't seem like enough...maybe another 70 or 80? Who knows? It has been a decade well spent though. Grasping onto adulthood, moving on, starting a wonderful family, rooting myself further into what defines me. I accomplished what I wanted in that short time. Do I have any answers though? No. Maybe I'll find some in the next decade or two.

My Affinity for Gin and Tonic

I have no true love of alcohol...neither for its taste nor recreational misuse. I don't enjoy hangovers or the thought of them, the feeling like little muddy feet ran tiny little marathons on my tongue at night. I've gone through moments of tequila in a true margarita (not the fruity slushy stuff), to a glass of chardonnay or more preferably riesling (sweet is good). The only one I truly enjoy and that has outlasted the others is a good gin and tonic. Not sure why, maybe the lime, the juniper flavor, the bitterness of quinine. Ah, the cold, refreshing quality of this classic mixed drink. Especially after a long, dull day at work. See, there's a little bit of happiness in the bottom...look closely, just like in my treasured cup of coffee. Except I bought store brand tonic water. Nasty. Tastes like licking an envelope. Stick to the Schweppes's.

Why I Continue to Roll My Eyes at Courtney Hansen

I'm lying on the couch, enjoying all the benefits an early autumn cold has to offer. The husband has made a wonderful venison potpie full of mushrooms, onions, and other vegetable goodness. Tasty. He's talking to some weirdo (my words, not his) on paltalk, and clicking between screens. My head is stuffy, and then that annoying screen saver of Courtney pops up every other click. Blah, I'd like to hand her my cruddy tissue. Sure she's attractive enough, doesn't do a lot for me, but the male populace all tune in for lame television shows about cars just to watch her. She's just a woman, not a goddess dropped from fantasy. Poor woman, probably gets the creepiest fan mail from weirdos (my words, not hers) wanting her to spank them. Icky. She does no harm to my personal life, I have no jealousy of an actress who I will never meet, it's just the site of her and the vulgar groan my husband makes when she crosses the television screen that repulse me. Although I am sure she is a delightful and intelligent woman, I can not help but be annoyed. She always manages to make me feel a little worse about my general persona, and I don't really like beings who deflate my inflated ego-mania. So, as long as the husband continues to ogle the lovely Ms. Hansen, I will continue to roll my eyes and dismiss her as a life size Barbie with no substance who makes my cold just that much worse. Take that you car-hopping floozy! The potpie was really great though.

Better Tasting Water...

So, do you use those Brita filtration pitchers or faucet heads that make your water taste ever so much more fresh, and well, like water? I do, but I have long been concerned over the disposal of the filters. Apparently I'm not the only one. They have been recycling the filters in Europe for some time, but we're a little behind. We do not recycle them, and they're headed for the trash . Still less plastic headed for the landfill (for those of you who do not recycle) than bottled water, but still a problem none the less. Think of a few million filters that could have been reclaimed rather than thrown away. An online petition to the Clorox company has been formed. To sign it go to http://www.takebackthefilter.org and ask them to start a program to recycle used filters, reuse plastic for new ones, and maybe make the refillable. Who knows, maybe we'll be able to do a little more to help out.

When Tweezers Just Aren't Enough

"Which one of these works best, I mean, which one of them is the strongest?"

So that was the question today. It came from a polite woman in her late forties or so, with a slight drawl, tidily dressed. It seemed sensible enough, a fair question. I want people to be at ease when asking such questions about sensitive and personal topics. After all, they came to the drugstore for help. Except I have no idea which over the counter facial remover would work the best. She continued...

"I've used the regular ones before and they worked really well, but I never thought there was a difference..."

Yes, some bottles of Nair and like products are for specific areas, like the legs, bikini line, and the face. I tried not to study her face for fuzz as she pantomimed putting on hair removal cream for me.

"I never even looked until the last time I was using this one and it kind of started to burn..."

Yes, putting the chemical designated for removing coarse leg hair on your more sensitive face is probably not the best idea. Yes, they are basically the same, but one is specifically designed to be put on your FACE...that is why is has FACE labeled on the bottle. It won't eat the flesh from your lower jaw and hopefully will not leave a rash (oh rashy people out there, hear my cry or laugh as the case may be)that people will question you about.

"Don't they make bigger bottles, I want a BIG bottle! See? I want to put it all over down here on my chin and down to my neck..."

Er...no. They don't make super-sized bottles of facial hair remover.

Sorry folks, there are some decisions I simply can not make for you. After we looked at all of the bottles, and I explained the differences, I left her to make her own decision. I do not want to familiarize myself with the grain and texture of your hair follicles. I am not going to choose what concoction you should put on your face so you can come back and tell me that it didn't work for you, and that you are going back to the leg hair strength cream that caused a burning sensation.

Unwanted facial hair? Truly a crisis in the beauty aisle. I'm 29 years old. I know some people near my age do, but I don't have unwanted facial hair nor do I use products for it. With any luck, I will never have too, and I'm sorry for those of you who do have this cosmetic dilemma. Try not to alarm me though with such questions when the answer is plainly on the bottle. We'll take it up with the manufacturers that they should put "alarms" on them much like people do with chili. "One Alarm" could be for mild peachy fuzz, "Two Alarm" for slightly irritating growth, all the way up to "Five Alarm" for stiffer than the boar bristles in your hair brush. If that's not enough, please consult your health care provider or dermatologist for a prescription strength remedy. Have a good day!

The Big Tent

As before mentioned, my child is having a birthday. Today is that fine milestone, and it's a pleasant low-key affair with just the three of us, one border collie, a carrot cake, a couple of new toys and a book, and the tent. We ordered one of those kid tents for indoor/outdoor use that has a connecting tunnel and three entrances. We opened the tent this morning and set it up for her, and she was busily crawling in and out before we could get the poles in. The tent is bigger than I thought though. Yes, I read the measurements and dimensions of it before I bought it, but it didn't seem that BIG until it was set up. Four feet square and four feet tall, with a four foot tunnel extending out of the side. Hmm. Requires rearranging of furniture and possibly rooms for the optimal space. She's happy with it though, crawling through, running in and out, around, peeking through the mesh, and it makes a lovely crinkling sound the entire time as busy little feet trot through.

On Turning Two

My daughter will be two next week. She is blissfully unaware of this significant date in her life as she leans against me sucking her thumb. She is however aware that she can climb out of her crib now, there by making nap time more amusing. She is aware that she can open the door to the pantry, and help herself to the broom and mop and trash. She knows she can throw things, tell me no in a firm, stubborn tone, and that she doesn't want help eating a messy bowl of soup. She knows how to make ladders from chairs and toys to reach things she shouldn't, to climb on bigger chairs to play with the light switch, and color on the walls with a blue crayon. She also knows how to give hugs, blow kisses, pet the dog gently, and share her food with Daddy. She helps with laundry, bringing clothes for me to hang, and throws away pieces of stuff she finds on the floor in the trash. She wakes up smiling and laughing every morning and is always happy when I come home from work. Her insatiable curiosity and exploring is nothing but charming and fascinating. I hope she remains unaware of those significant dates just a little longer.

Rashy People

I want to discuss a major heath issue with all of you for a moment. It is a crisis facing many of those amongst us, maybe the person sitting next to you as you read this. Rashes. Seriously.

As mentioned in previous posts, I work in a retail pharmacy. Regularly on weekends there are rashy people. The people that don't want to go the emergency room for an itchy patch of redness since there are no clinics and most doctors are only open Saturday mornings in the small towns in Western Colorado. Can't say I blame them considering the fee, and having to sit next to the person whose arm is dangling uselessly at their side (I fell off of a roof, what are you here for...Oh I have a rash...). So rashy people do the next best thing. They go to pharmacies/drugstores for the quick diagnosis. This consists of them informing the pharmacist or person closet to hydrocortisone that they have a RASH. What should they put on it? And they pull up their shirt, roll up a sleeve, pull down the edge of their slacks, and we'll stop there. Eew! What do you think is causing it? It really itches! Nope already tried the Benadryl, orally and topical, the calamine lotion, loratidine, the hydrocortisone, and every conceivable over the counter remedy known to mankind. And it still itches!

Please, put down you shirt, sir or madame, old or young, resident or tourist, and consider going to the doctor. We've offered all of our fine suggestions, and although we fill prescriptions, we don't make clinical evaluations here. Sorry. Don't tell me anymore about the itching, redness, how you haven't changed your laundry detergent, perfumes, lotions, diet, or anything else, or the oozing and scabs. Yuck. Don't worry Monday is coming, and rashes only happen on weekends.

Spring Fever

I'm having those little spring outbreaks still. The urge to compost, dig in soil, grow something edible. The snow is receeding and now there is nasty mud everywhere waiting for plant life to make its appearance once again. Won't get my hopes up too much...I'll wait until at least April for winter to go.

Confusion, Frustration, and Other Moments

Most of you probably suffer from the title emotions. Wanting what we do not have, trying to be happy with what we do, seeking a way to change and alter the future and to shape it to our desire. To find a way...hmm...

Funny how you find yourself wanting things you never thought you would. Like a house and a yard. The quintessential American dream, June making dinner for Ward, Wally, and the Beav, decked out in her heels and pearl necklace. Hi honey, how was the office today. Okay, so not that quaint-essential. You want stability though, space of your own, to do what you want to do.

How do you get there and how long does it take? Different for everyone, but still agitating when it's not in your grasp.